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LESSONS FROM ONE FOSTER PARENT TO ANOTHER

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In these pages, Frances shares real-life experiences and practical insights from years of fostering—across different communities and even in another country. With honesty and vulnerability, she openly admits her mistakes so you can learn from them.

Her heart is to encourage foster parents, families, and anyone connected to the system. Through her journey, she hopes to inspire passion, commitment, and love—so that every child in foster care receives the support they deserve from the best version of us all.

Whether your on the verge of losing your sh*t as a foster parent, wanting to know what you're getting into as a new foster parent, or a seasoned foster parent seeking to renew your love as a foster parent, this book is for you!

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Fostering Growth

To create a supportive environment where lifelong learning thrives.

Empowering Success

To help every student gain the skills and confidence needed to excel.

ABOUT ME

Hi, I'm "Foster Mom Fran!"

—better known as Frances or "Sissy." I’m a wife, mother, and grandmother with over 20 years of experience fostering children. Over the years, I’ve worn just about every “mom” hat—bio mom, foster mom, surrogate mom, team mom, classroom mom, mentor mom, EMS mom, and God-mom!

Now, I’ve stepped into a new role as a mom’s mom, passionate about helping other foster moms find fulfillment and support in the incredible work they do for the children they welcome into their homes.

That’s why I wrote my book, "Lessons From One Foster Parent to Another: Lose Your Sh*t, Learn From My Mistakes, and Still Love It!" Buy a copy, share it with another foster parent, or reach out—I’m here to help.

My Mission

A Place For Every Foster Parent

When I first became a foster parent, I had one big, audacious goal—I wanted to foster 100 children! I dreamed of opening my home to as many kids as possible, providing them with love, stability, and a safe place to land. Every child who has come through my home has left an imprint on my heart, shaping me just as much as I shaped them.

But as the years went on, I realized something: while my dream of fostering 100 children may not yet be complete, I have the opportunity to impact even more lives—not just through the children I take in, but through the parents who do the same.

Fostering isn’t just about opening your home; it’s about opening your heart, again and again. And while the love we pour into these kids is immeasurable, the challenges can sometimes feel overwhelming. I’ve walked through the exhaustion, the heartbreak, the uncertainty, and the deep desire to do everything right—all while wondering if I was making a real difference.

That’s why I’ve stepped into this new season—not just as a foster mom, but as a foster mom’s-mom. My mission is to mentor and support foster parents through multiple avenues, including sharing my journey in my book, the FosterMomFran weekly encouragement newsletter, personalized mentoring, and speaking engagements. My goal is to help every foster parent find clarity, confidence, and fulfillment in their journey. Because when foster parents are supported, foster kids thrive!

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Subscribe to the Foster Mom Fran Newsletter for weekly encouragement, stories, and insights from one foster parent to another!

Designed for everyday foster parents, this newsletter offers practical guidance, real-life lessons, and uplifting support to help you navigate the world of fostering with confidence.

Why Choose Us

Your Path to Personalized Academic Excellence

SUPPORT

COMMUNITY

CONSULTION

Guidance And Encouragement

Whether you're just starting out or years into fostering, I provide insight and reassurance to help you navigate the ups and downs.

A Community That Understands!

Fostering can feel isolating, but you’re not alone. I’m here to connect you with others who truly understand, REAL foster parents alike.

Practical Insight

From handling transitions to maintaining emotional balance, I share real-life strategies learned from decades of experience.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What kind of services do you offer?

I offer support to foster parents, or those desiring to be foster parents, through one-on-one mentorship, private small group virtual meet-ups, and one time consultations. If you are interested in knowing more, contact me at [email protected].

Are services conducted online or in-person?

I primarily provide online support. In-person options vary depending on your location in California. Contact me at [email protected] if you are interested in in-person options.

What does Mentorship include?

Mentorship is simply whatever most supports you as a new, existing, or seasoned foster parent. Mentorship looks like one-on-one support to address your unique needs, as well as access to my privately-led small group calls with other foster parents.

How much are your services?

Service prices vary depending on your unique needs. email me at [email protected] to ask about your specific needs.

Let's Connect!

Looking for more personalized support?

I offer personalized mentorship, consultation, and speak at small groups and events on the following topics.

How to interact with biological parents.
Prepare yourself, your family, and home for first/next placement.
When my foster child leaves my home.
What do I do when I realize I am in over my head.
How will I know if this placement is a good fit?
Having a sibling set.
Death of a foster child.
How do I introduce my culture and way of doing things, and still respect my foster
child's culture.
Getting through SST’s and IEP's with your foster child before you have educational rights.

If you are interested in learning more about how we can work together, email me at [email protected].

Testimonials

Hear What Others Have To Say

Frances is the reason I became a foster mom! After seeing her and her family love these kids- I wanted to do what she did.

Frances helped me decide what way I would go, and gave me support through all the foster children I had in my home.

—Belia P.

My wife and I had debated fostering for years, unsure if we were equipped for the challenges or what kind of people truly succeed in caring for children who have endured such trauma. After speaking with Frances and hearing her candid perspective on fostering and the system, it was a wake-up call. But when we saw how she interacted with her current foster children and heard the powerful stories of the positive impact she had on them—and the impact they had on her—it deeply moved us. Not only does she maintain relationships with the kids, but also with the parents they were reunited with. Listening to her experiences and reflecting on it through prayer helped us make the decision to start our own fostering journey.

— Chris & Rachel

Frances is a beautiful, kind, unselfish soul. She takes broken kids into her big heart and gives them a safe place to heal. She tirelessly gives these children every service and aid she can so they have the best advantage at being successful in life. As a mom who adopted one of her foster babies, I can say she didn't only take her foster kids into her big heart, but the bio families and her adoptive families as well. I know she has blessed many lives and will continue to bless those that come within the circle of her arms.